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You bring what is actually going on
Confusion, desire, grief, hope, a decision, a pattern you keep repeating. Nothing needs to be prepared, framed well, or made presentable.
One-to-one relationship coaching
The Love State
Empowerment & Acceptance through Love
One-to-one coaching for people at a turning point in love, relationship, or work. A 60-minute video call, in English, Spanish, Dutch, or French — single, partnered, or unsure.
Book a clarity call — €50
How a session worksFirst 60-minute call · regular €120 · no obligation to continue
Tente · Coach
What happens
One hour, shaped around you
Coaching is a focused, private conversation. It is not a script, a diagnosis, or a performance. You bring what is true for you, and we look at it together with full attention.
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We look at it together, honestly
No script, no diagnosis, no performance. One hour with someone fully present to what you are saying — and to what you are not saying yet.
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You leave with something to use
A practice, a reflection, a question, or a clear next step. Something that keeps working after the call has ended.
What it is not: therapy, medical care, or a promise of a particular outcome. It is not about becoming someone else. It is about becoming more honest about who you already are and what you actually want. You do not need to be in a relationship, and you do not need to identify with a particular label.
What we explore
Love is not a single conversation
The work moves between the personal and the universal: relationships, self-acceptance, desire, communication, grief, joy, and the daily practice of staying open.
Love
How love moves through us — in relationships, in solitude, and in the ordinary moments we often overlook.
Acceptance
The practice of meeting ourselves and each other without turning the present moment into a problem to solve.
Aliveness
Conversations about presence, desire, courage, and the quiet shifts that make a life feel more fully lived.
One-to-one · Intro offer
Clarity call
€50
Regular price €120
60-minute intro session · regular sessions €120
Book a clarity callSave €70 on your first call. Tente works with four new clients a month.
What is included
- A 60-minute one-to-one session by video call
- A space shaped around what is most alive for you
- Personalised practices and reflections to take with you
- Text and audio support between sessions
- Honest, compassionate, and practical guidance
Held online, by video call
English, Spanish, Dutch, French
You can join from anywhere with a stable internet connection and a private space. There is no obligation to continue after the first call — we decide together whether ongoing sessions make sense.
In their words
What clients say
Freya H.
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“Tente is a true gem! He's helped me connect with my inner strength and create a life that feels authentic and aligned. I felt completely comfortable opening up to him.”
About Tente
A life devoted to love, in practice
I'm Tente. For over two decades I have been exploring love — not only as something that happens between people, but as a force that shapes how we meet ourselves, our work, our relationships, and the world.
Relationship coaching is where that exploration becomes personal: one conversation at a time, shaped around what matters to you. The podcast is where those conversations become public.
Read Tente's story“The Love State is a state of being where love flows effortlessly within and through us. It is a state of deep connection, joy, and fulfilment. It is a state where we are fully present and alive, embracing all that life has to offer.”
Frequently Asked Questions
Questions Before Starting
Honest answers about relationship coaching and what to expect.
Relationship coaching is a one-to-one conversation with Tente, focused on how you love, connect, and relate — to a partner, a family member, a colleague, or yourself. It is a private space to look honestly at what is present, clarify what you want, and find practical ways forward.
Coaching is open to anyone who wants to explore love, connection, and personal growth. You do not need to be in a relationship, and you do not need to identify with a particular label. The work is shaped around you.
No. Sessions are one-to-one with Tente — partners are not seen together. This is relationship coaching, not couples therapy: it focuses on how you relate, not on treating a relationship as a third patient.
Yes. Sessions take place online by video call. You can join from anywhere with a stable internet connection and a private space.
A standard session is 60 minutes. The pace and focus are agreed together.
The first 60-minute clarity call is €50, instead of the regular €120. There is no obligation to continue — we will decide together whether ongoing sessions make sense.
There is no fixed number. Some people come for a single clarity session; others choose a short series of sessions to work through a particular season of life. We can decide together what supports you without selling you a package you do not need.
No. Coaching is educational and developmental. It is not medical, psychological, psychiatric, or sex therapy, and it does not diagnose or treat health conditions. If you need clinical support, please work with a qualified professional.
Sessions are available in English, Spanish, Dutch, and French.
You can book directly through Cal.com or send a question through the contact page.
If something in you is ready to be seen, start there
A clarity call is a simple first step. We will talk about what you are looking for and whether this work is the right fit.
Book a clarity call — €50
60-minute intro call · €50 instead of €120 · no obligation to continue
The podcast
Prefer to hear me first?
The Love State is also a podcast: conversations about love, acceptance, connection, and what it means to feel fully alive. A low-pressure way to get a feel for how I think before we speak.
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NOTES FROM THE LOVE STATE
Occasional reflections, new episodes, and invitations to coaching. No noise, no pressure.